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15 things that humans do that dogs hate!
1-SHOWERING YOUR
DOG WITH HUGS!
Hugging is the best
way for us humans to express love and gratitude in-between each
other, but it is not
the case with our fellow dogs! For them, hugging is a sign of
dominance! Although,
you are the dominant force in your house and in the relationship
between you and your
dog, still it is not something you want to keep flaunting in your
dog’s face all the
time! Hugging brings feelings of confusion and irritation for your dog –
clearly, they will not
understand nor enjoy it!
By understanding this,
try to avoid hugging your dog whenever possible, if not always!
Your dog does tolerate
you, because you are his owner and you are dominant, but it will
never be a pleasant
experience! Strangers should stay further away from this practice
as the dog can show
signs of unsettlement, and even aggression!
2-NEGLECTING BODY
LANGUAGE!
Dogs are the experts
at reading our thoughts and feelings before we even organize and
express them!
Therefore, the best method of communicating to your dog is by adjusting
your body language and
posture before pronouncing a single word! Coordinate your
words with your
posture, otherwise, you may be sending mixed signals to your dog!
Instead of
understanding your command, you rather confuse the dog and make them
act even worse than in
the beginning!
Try practicing body
language for a full day, by not speaking a word when communicating
with your dog! See if
they understand you better!
3-FOCUSING ONLY ON
THEIR HEADS!
Tapping your dog on
the head is another wrong way of showing affection towards them!
Although, it may seem
a natural, it is one form of interaction that brings uncomfortable
feelings in dogs! Dogs
will be dogs, they are not babies – keep in mind!
4-CHAOS VS.
STRUCTURE It may seem like dogs enjoy running around in a frenzy and
throw their toys all around the house, but, they still need
structure! They need to know when it is a good time to run, play, and
mess around with their toys and when is a good time to calm down and
be more attentive! They must have a day schedule and and they need to
have you as a leader show them the rules and regulations so that they
can properly respect them! As soon as you develop a structure, you
will notice your dog being extremely happy with it and adjusting
accordingly! Dogs need rules! Likewise, children and all humans do
strive in structured schedules and restrictions. Predictability
and organization is the ground of calmness for both, you and your loving
dog! Additionally, your relationship will be trustworthy! Reward your
dog positively for respecting boundaries and rules whenever you
notice and be consistent to follow the same rules in order to not
confuse your dog! 5- LONG EYE CONTACT Staring at your dog for too
long is a no, no – especially, with stranger dogs! Eye contact
between dogs is the way by which they set their roles and dominance
within the pack. At often times, eye contact turns fatal – be it a
dog fight for position or simply connoting aggression! Therefore, eye
contact may confuse your dog! Although, they will tolerate you as an
owner, do not practice it often! When it comes to stranger dogs, remind
yourself to avoid it altogether as you never know what kind of reaction
you might trigger! 6- FORCEFUL PLAYTIME AND SOCIALIZATION Whenever
you notice your dog not playing or socializing much – make sure you
handle the situation with care by taking baby steps into making your
dog feel more relaxed and social – but do not ever force your dog
into such situations as, in contrary, it may only leave him
traumatized and more avoidant than before! For happy and calm behaviour
always reward your dog. It will help him become more socially involved
and balanced! 7- WALKING BUT NOT SMELLING It may be a nerve
wrecking experience for you to stop and allow your dog to carefully
smell the bushes or the sidewalk grass, when you have already planned
the location you want to take the dog as well as the time you are
going to spend outside! Although, your dog really needs a walk and a
play-around at the park, it is also very important for them to stop
and smell whatever they choose to stop and smell while on the way to the
destination! For your dog, this is quality time, where they check out
who has been around! Also, it gives them a better understanding of
their surroundings! They gather information, knowledge and they
explore the world through their noses! Rephrase: through smelling!
8- A TIGHT LEASH When walking your dog, the leash is a means of
communication between you! It is a means of transmitting energy, and
your dog will react accordingly, depending on whether you are keeping
them at a tight or a loose leash! It may seem unimportant how you put
and maintain the leash on your dog, but it does make all the difference!
The mood that will surround us during the walks depends on it! A
tight leash means tension, stress, frustration, alertness! And, a dog
that walks on a tight leash is more prone to barking and making
extreme reactions! It is hard sometimes as you may get aggravated by
your dog pulling you! But, it is important to teach your dog to walk
calmly from an early age so that keeping a tight leash is not a
necessity! When you walk your dog on a loose leash, you will be
sending your dog messages of calmness, not tension! Your dog will
feel you have everything under control! Therefore, their walking will
be easier for you to handle and no need to tighten things up! 9-
TENSE VS. BORED MOOD Whenever you are feeling tense or bored, keep in
mind your dog is going to go through the same mood and feelings! We
never enjoy having such feelings – dogs likewise! If you notice your
dog seeming bored or tense, just make sure you check with yourself
first as your dog is mostly mirroring your feelings! Having busy
schedules, when usually we just want to relax and unwind when we get
home, but this is the most boring and irritating thing you could do
for your dog! They need your attention, some fun time and obviously a
walk around the park! No wonder your dog will start engaging in
destructive behaviour! 10- LOUD ENVIRONMENTS! A loud tone of
voice, fireworks, loud ambient and everything loud will be a great
amount of disturbance for your dog! Next time you feel like you are
about to yell at your dog, think twice! They surely will not
understand a word you say, and you will only cause them trauma,
followed by a great cloud of confusion! Adjust your body language to
your command and see the difference! Keep your tone firm, but not
loud and always maintain the appropriate body posture! You will have
a great bond and understanding with your dog! Also, try to spare them
from various celebrations, as much as you can! 11- TEASING Even
though this one does not need much examining and explaining as it is
selfexplanatory, still it is worth mentioning just in case you find
teasing funny – your dog really doesn’t! Barking after your dog,
waving, pulling their tails, and other similar things are not the
best options, just as teasing them with a toy or food and never letting
the dog have it is not right! You may also leave your dog with
behavioural problems! 12- HOME ALONE For dogs, being left home
alone for long is a devastating practice! They need their leaders
around in order to feel more secure! When home alone, at first they
start feeling bored, then boredom turns into stress, and finally
stress turns into deep anxiety or depression! Especially for dogs
like Labradors, Retrievers and Terriers, it is the worst thing that
could happen! They will need their leader around for almost 24/7. And
generally, being pack animals, dogs need the company of their family
throughout the day! 13- BABY TREATMENT Giving your dog the baby
treatment is incredibly irritating! While you may be tempted to hug
your dog and carry them up in the air out of admiration, your dog will
have no clue what the occasion is and will be further irritated! They
do not understand such treatment and they certainly do not like it!
Another very upsetting thing for dogs is a stroller! Do not get them
into one while perfectly fine and capable to walk! Walking and
sniffing are one of the deepest instincts in dogs, and you will
prevent them from experiencing their essence! If you carry your dog
around in a stroller, just like a baby, you are depriving him of his
ultimate pleasure! They need walking and smelling just as much as
they need exercise! 14- BATHS Baths are a very uncomfortable
experience for your dog! Dogs do not think of hopping in the shower
and getting themselves clean! They do not enjoy the splashes of water on
their skin, and they do not enjoy the noise of the running water! To
achieve a calmer reaction from your dog when you want to bathe them,
you should start by using lots of praise and rewards and being very
patient so that they do not get traumatized! Be sensitive when
handling your dog’s fearfulness! 15- PLAYING DRESS-UP!!! Playing
dress-up is a foreign concept in the dog world! They may sometimes
tolerate it out of politeness but do not over-indulge them in this
type of activity as it is zero fun for them! However, it may be okay
to dress your lovely dog in order to get a fast cute picture, but be
alert towards their reaction and remove the clothing as soon as you
notice irritation surfacing! You will surely see your dog tearing the
costumes off if not supervised!
February 2011
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